Fab Female role Model No. 5: Melissa Davies

Melissa Davies, Foster Mum, Barnardos Mother of the Year 2005.

Melissa left school at 16 to care for her younger brother and sister, so her single mum could work two jobs. Even back then she was regarded as the “neighborhood mum” taking any child under her wing.

Now, as a single mum herself at 34 with two boys, Taylor (8) and Keaton (6) she is an inspiration to others. She became a family care officer to keep families together and, as a foster mum she has cared for numerous children and babies. One of the babies she had was a heroin addict and (despite the advice of doctors) managed to free him of his addiction and get him back with his mum. For the past couple of years, Melissa has cared for a 7 -year old girl who has been in more than 6 foster homes and her 4-year-old brain damaged brother. Melissa has learnt sign language to help him to communicate. The boy was recently in hospital for a serious heart operation and Melissa never left his side.

Somehow, she even finds time to renovate her home on the Gold Coast – painting, tiling, building fences and even hanging doors!

Melissa thanked her two sons for the support they give her to be a foster carer: “They not only have to share their toys, their space but they have to share their mum as well!”

Melissa’s sister Sarah describes Melissa as “a really wonderful person, really strong, very level headed and loves her kids to death.” “Even though she struggles both financially and physically she never complains. Despite her 4 am starts and late nights Melissa runs a beautiful and fun household. “I believe any child Melissa cares for will be touched for life.”

Melissa currently cares for her two boys and five long-term foster children who she hopes will be part of her family forever. The oldest child is 11 and youngest 2.